On several occasions, when a person has asked me to work with them, I hear “How long do you think this will take?” My answer is always the same, “I don’t know. It does not depend on me. It is all about your willingness to be honest, control your fear, and do what you know you need to do.” I’ve worked with people where we have resolved their issues in a few months to working with several for 3 to 5 years. Remember, you didn’t get in this position over night.